S.A.Y.E.Swing Club/Prive Ultralounge Prive Ultralounge Detroit MI: Sex Club Review (What They Don't Tell You)

Rating: 4.4/5.0 ⭐

Overview: Detroit’s Velvet-Curtained Secret

Looking for a sex club in Detroit, MI that balances sophistication, safety, and social magnetism? Step into S.A.Y.E.Swing Club/Prive Ultralounge, where Detroit’s urban pulse meets a soft-lit, privacy-forward hub for lifestyle couples and adventurous singles. Forget the blaring clichés—this swingers club brings an air of polished comfort and real-world etiquette that’s a cut above the average “swingers near me” spot, right in the heart of Motor City.

Vibe, Crowd & First Impressions

S.A.Y.E.Swing Club takes first impressions seriously. Guests are welcomed into an amber-lit lounge where velvet textures and the light scent of citrus or hot wax set the ambience—this isn’t your sticky-floored dive. Social spaces are designed for effortless mingling, meaning you’ll find couples mapping interests or setting boundaries over low music as much as you’ll find more boisterous conversation.

The regulars? Think diverse but mature—late 20s to mid-50s, with a noticeable mix of stylish professionals, long-term partners, and friendly but respectful singles. New faces are eased in with attentive hosts and courteous door staff. You’re unlikely to feel lost or pressured, but equally unlikely to vanish in a faceless crowd.

Membership & Door Policy

Membership at S.A.Y.E.Swing Club isn’t just a formality—it’s part of the consent-forward culture. Expect ID checks, a short orientation if you’re new, and a detailed walk-through of club rules. Couple memberships are common, but select singles may be admitted on peak nights; solo men should expect an application and vetting process to keep the vibe balanced.

Most nights are RSVP-only (see event calendar online or through private invite circles). Outfits and behavior are closely observed at the door—no late-night bar sloppiness here. Arriving pre-dressed to code is not just appreciated, but expected.

Rules: Consent, Privacy & Safety

S.A.Y.E.Swing Club runs on a clear code: enthusiastic consent is non-negotiable, and “no” really means no. Trained security and staff keep an eye out but are rarely intrusive. Discretion is paramount—photos are not allowed inside main spaces, and cell phones are discouraged. You’ll see visible signals and color-coded wristbands to help manage boundaries and wishes.

Feel nervous as a newcomer? You’ll find brief orientations and low-key mixers that cover etiquette, consent, and club safety policies—another level of professionalism that reassures first-timers.

Spaces & Amenities

Stepping deeper in, you’ll discover this isn’t just a single-room bar. S.A.Y.E.Swing Club offers:

• Plush lounge areas with intimate seating and mood lighting
• A polished central bar with plenty of non-alcoholic choices (it’s BYOB—more on that below)
• Private and semi-private play spaces with velvet curtains
• A dedicated DJ booth and cozy dance floor for themed parties
• Secure lockers and dedicated changing spaces to freshen up or store personal items2012ussenioropen+1​ Ambience runs upscale but never snobbish—think boutique hotel suite energy with friendly Detroit roots.

Events & Calendar

The club’s social calendar is both lively and curated—expect monthly themed parties (Masquerade Balls, Blackout Nights, Naughty in Neon) and special mixers for couples-only, bi-curious nights, or singles specials. Rotating hosts keep things fresh, and many events require advance RSVP and pre-payment to keep the crowd curated and respectful.

Check the official calendar for upcoming events, and don’t hesitate to reach out to the club for recommendations based on your comfort and experience level.

Pricing, Packages & What's Included

Prices vary by event, but you can expect:

• Couples: $50–$100/event depending on the theme and night
• Select singles: $80–$150, strictly vetted
• BYOB—no in-house alcohol is served; bring your own (ice and mixers are included)
• Lockers and coat check are typically included in cover
• Membership fee may apply for ongoing perks and discounts2012ussenioropen+1​ Major credit cards are accepted at the door, but some exclusive events may request cash for quicker processing.

How to Get In: RSVP & Guest List

You need to be on the RSVP list—walk-ins are very rare, and first-time guests should fill out a basic profile online. Detailed instructions and etiquette reminders are sent with your confirmation. Plan to arrive before 11pm for smoother check-in (late entry may be refused even with RSVP on busy nights).

Pro tip: Verified profiles and RSVP in advance unlock not only faster entry but also first access to high-demand themed nights. Navigating the process? The staff’s handshake is warm—don’t hesitate to ask for help if something’s unclear.

Neighborhood & Getting There

Located in central Detroit, S.A.Y.E.Swing Club sits near public transit lines and is accessible by car—plan for street parking or nearby private lots; meters run late but are generally safe. Rideshare drop-off is close to the entrance and, after midnight, the area retains a steady but not rowdy nightlife energy.

BYOB policy means you’ll probably want to bring a discreet tote; avoid visible bottles on the street to keep things under wraps and respectful.

Pros & Cons

What We Liked / What to Know

• Genuine focus on consent, privacy, and guest comfort
• Stylish, well-maintained venue with real “velvet-rope” energy
• Diverse crowd—newcomers welcomed, not just tolerated
• Strong calendar of curated events with something for all experience levels
• Easy RSVP system and responsive staff
• Secure storage, BYOB, and thoughtful amenities

What We Didn't Like

• Selective entry means some lone males may find attendance difficult on peak nights
• BYOB is nice, but prepping drinks can mean slightly slower starts for first-timers
• Parking after midnight can be competitive
• Can feel intimidating if you’re ultra-new and arrive right at event peak—arrive early

Who It's For

S.A.Y.E.Swing Club will appeal to couples and select singles who value style, discretion, and a mature approach to the swinging lifestyle. It’s especially strong for those who want a “sex club near me” with an upscale but unpretentious crowd and events that reward regular participation.

Alternatives Nearby

Detroit’s scene offers a handful of other worthy options if you want a change of scenery—consider Red Light Social for a slightly bigger crowd or Metro for a cozier, couples-focused experience. Each has distinct pros, but S.A.Y.E.Swing Club stands out for balance and welcoming staff.

Frequently Asked Questions

What to Know Before Visiting This Venue

• Premium Experience: Sophisticated atmosphere and exceptional service
• Member Safety: Professional staff and established safety protocols
• Discretion: Complete privacy and confidentiality for all members
• Quality Facilities: State-of-the-art amenities and comfortable spaces

Ready to experience premium adult lifestyle entertainment? Contact us to learn more about membership and upcoming events.